Showing posts with label domestic violence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label domestic violence. Show all posts

Sunday, July 14, 2013

From GEMS.

A powerful statement was released by GEMS from their found Rachel Lloyd. We wished to share it with you.

"There's a war going on outside no man (woman/girl) is safe from". So angry at men who purchase women and girls, at men who hit, men who rape, men who feel like women are their property. Angry at the man who disposed of a girl I loved like she was nothing more than garbage. Angry that he just walked back into his life like nothing had happened the night he took hers. Angry thatwe're not angry enough that we live in a world where women and girls are victims of violence every minute. Angry that women and girls in the life aren't even seen as human. Angry that this could of been me and so many, many people I love. Angry that somewhere in the world, soon, this will happen again to a girl or a woman. Angry that while I've been writing this women are being beaten, sexually assaulted, and some killed - often at the hands of a man they love. Mobb Deep was half right - there is a war going on - but for women and girls its not just happening outside, its happening inside our homes, behind closed doors, on city streets, in hotels, in cars, in workplaces, in bedrooms and kitchens, in front of our children, in war zones and refugee camps, in prisons and colleges,- there is no safe zone. And no woman or girl, especially those in the life, are safe from it. I'm so tired of nursing girls wounds, of supporting female friends through their sexual abuse trauma, of hearing about one woman after another being hit, punched, kicked, choked by a man they are intimate with, tired of complaining about the constant degradation of women and girls in the media, tired of trying to explain to people how its all connected, how its all part of the continuum of women and girls being dehumanized. You start with sexism, misogyny, male privilege and acceptance of violence towards women and girls in our culture, in all cultures, and eventually you are left with a young woman's body dumped like garbage in some woods by a highway. And you're left with only a mention of an unidentified female body in the news, that doesn't even raise an eyebrow. Just one of the many faceless, nameless women and girls who are casualties of the war against them everyday. I'm so tired of crying, I just want to know when it ends. When do we all get angry and tired and disgusted enough to fight back? Don't our daughters, mothers, sisters, nieces, girlfriends, friends deserve to be safe? Don't the women and girls who aren't related to us, who might not look like us, who aren't seen as 'good' girls or 'real' victims deserve to be safe too? We didn't sign up for this war simply by virtue of being born female. We didn't enlist, we don't want to be soldiers. We just want to be safe and free. That's not asking a lot."
-Rachel Lloyd, GEMS founder

For more information about GEMS, visit their site



Friday, March 8, 2013

A New Act, A New Hope

As a vintage shop, we want to provide the most unique and beautiful items to our customers. We also want to do more than just sell vintage which is why we donate 10% of every purchase to G.E.M.S, Girls Educational Mentoring Service. This organization was founded in New York City in 1998 by Rachel Lloyd who as a teenager was commercially sexually exploited. 

G.E.M.S strives to make known the issues of domestic trafficking and sexual exploitation in New York and the states. They are committed to ending sexual exploitation and domestic trafficking of women and children by changing individual lives, transforming public perception, and revolutionizing the systems and policies that impact sexually exploited youth. A great step toward this goal was taken yesterday with the renewing of an political act. 

President Obama signing act. 
It was a day of excitement and celebration as a new act was signed by President Obama, The Violence Against Women Act. This act was originally put forth in 1994 but in 2011 fell by the wayside and was not renewed until yesterday. This act empowers victims of sexual and domestic violence across the United States. It gives them rights in the law as well as access to programs and victim assistant services. 

This is the beginning of a long road towards empowering victims of domestic and sexual violence and to one day end sexual exploitation and domestic trafficking in the United States.

For more information on G.E.M.S. and to support their movement click HERE
For more facts about the Violence Against Women Act, click HERE.